Justice denied

Friday, January 9, 2009

Maybe I'm getting really cynical in my old age, but I feel that every day the patina of law and order is peeled back further in this country. Those who know me in RL know of the legal problem I've had in the past that make me feel that too often the laws of this country are just "formally" arbitrary and easily used to crush the smallest of us.

I'm not alone in this...I've been reading online comments in regards to the poor man shot in the back WHILE HANDCUFFED around New Years, and the overwhelming consensus is that the police involved will undergo a long investigation and let go without any punishment.

In a different injustice, consider this letter by Lloyd Levin, one of the producers of the Watchmen, about Fox's ridiculous legal maneuvers. They've been making this movie for 15 years and I guess Fox was involved at some point, but they never made the movie. They never even tried! Read Lloyd's letter below:

"Watchmen: A Producer's Perspective

An open letter.

Who is right? In the Watchmen dispute between Warner Brothers and Fox that
question is being discussed, analyzed, argued, tried and ruled on in a court of
law. That's one way to answer the question - It is a fallback position in our
society for parties in conflict to resolve disputes. And there are teams of
lawyers and a highly regarded Federal Judge trying to do just that, which
obviates any contribution I could make towards answering the "who is right"
question within a legal context. But after 15 plus years of involvement in the
project, and a decade more than that working in the movie business, I have
another perspective, a personal perspective that I believe important to have on
the public record.

No one is more keenly aware of the irony of this dispute than Larry Gordon
and I who have been trying to get this movie made for many years. There's a list
of people who have rejected the viability of a movie based on Alan Moore and
Dave Gibbon's classic graphic novel that reads like a who's who of Hollywood.

We've been told the graphic novel is unfilmable.

After 9/11 some felt the story's themes were too close to reality ever to
be palatable to a mainstream audience.

There were those who considered the project but who wished it were somehow
different: Could it be a buddy movie, or a team-up movie or could it focus on
one main character; did it have to be so dark; did so many people have to die;
could it be stripped of its flashback structure; could storylines be eliminated;
could new storylines be invented; did it have to be so long; could the blue guy
put clothes on... The list of dissatisfactions for what Watchmen is was as
endless as the list of suggestions to make it something it never was.

Also endless are the list of studio rejections we accrued over the years.
Larry and I developed screenplays at five different studios. We had two false
starts in production on the movie. We were involved with prominent and
commercial directors. Big name stars were interested. In one instance hundreds
of people were employed, sets were being built - An A-list director and top
artists in the industry were given their walking papers when the studio
financing the movie lost faith.

After all these years of rejection, this is the same project, the same
movie, over which two studios are now spending millions of dollars contesting
ownership. Irony indeed, and then some.
Through the years, inverse of the
lack of studio faith has been the passionate belief by many many individuals -
movie professionals who were also passionate fans of the graphic novel - who,
yes, wanted to work on the film, but more for reasons of just wanting to see the
movie get made, to see this movie get made and made right, donated their time
and talent to help push the film forward: Writers gave us free screenplay
drafts; conceptual art was supplied by illustrators, tests were performed gratis
by highly respected actors and helped along and put together by editors,
designers, prop makers and vfx artists; we were the recipients of donated studio
and work space, lighting and camera equipment. Another irony, given the
commercial stakes implied by the pitched legal dispute between Fox and Warners,
is that for years Watchmen has been a project that has survived on the fumes of
whatever could be begged, borrowed and stolen - A charity case for all intents
and purposes. None of that effort, none of that passion and emotional
involvement, is considered in the framework of this legal dispute.

From my point of view, the flashpoint of this dispute, came in late spring
of 2005. Both Fox and Warner Brothers were offered the chance to make Watchmen.
They were submitted the same package, at the same time. It included a cover
letter describing the project and its history, budget information, a screenplay,
the graphic novel, and it made mention that a top director was involved.

And it's at this point, where the response from both parties could not have
been more radically different.

The response we got from Fox was a flat "pass." That's it. An internal Fox
email documents that executives there felt the script was one of the most
unintelligible pieces of shit they had read in years. Conversely, Warner
Brothers called us after having read the script and said they were interested in
the movie - yes, they were unsure of the screenplay, and had many questions, but
wanted to set a meeting to discuss the project, which they promptly did. Did
anyone at Fox ask to meet on the movie? No. Did anyone at Fox express any
interest in the movie? No. Express even the slightest interest in the movie? Or
the graphic novel? No.

From there, the executives at Warner Brothers, who weren't yet completely
comfortable with the movie, made a deal to acquire the movie rights and we all
started to creatively explore the possibility of making Watchmen. We discussed
creative approaches and started offering the movie to directors, our former
director having moved on by then. After a few director submissions, Zack Snyder
came onboard, well before the release of his movie 300. In fact, well before its
completion. This was a gut, creative call by Larry, me and the studio... Zack
didn't have a huge commercial track record, yet we all felt he was the right guy
for the movie.

Warner Brothers continued to support, both financially and creatively, the
development of the movie. And eventually, after over a year of work, they agreed
to make the film, based on a script that, for what it's worth, was by and large
very similar to the one Fox initially read and deemed an unintelligible piece of
shit.

Now here's the part that has to be fully appreciated, if for nothing more
than providing insight into producing movies in Hollywood: The Watchmen script
was way above the norm in length, near 150 pages, meaning the film could clock
in at close to 3 hours, the movie would not only be R rated but a hard R - for
graphic violence and explicit sex - would feature no stars, and had a budget
north of $100M. We also asked Warner Brothers to support an additional 1 to 1.5
hours of content incurring additional cost that would tie in with the movie but
only be featured in DVD iterations of the film. Warners supported the whole
package and I cannot begin to emphasize how ballsy and unprecedented a move this
was on the part of a major Hollywood studio. Unheard of. And would another
studio in Hollywood, let alone a studio that didn't show one shred of interest
in the movie, not one, have taken such a risk? Would they ever have made such a
commitment, a commitment to a film that defied all conventional wisdom?

Only the executives at Fox can answer that question. But if they were to be
honest, their answer would have to be "No."

Shouldn't Warner Brothers be entitled to the spoils - if any -- of the risk
they took in supporting and making Watchmen? Should Fox have any claim on
something they could have had but chose to neither support nor show any interest
in?

Look at it another way... One reason the movie was made was because Warner
Brothers spent the time, effort and money to engage with and develop the
project. If Watchmen was at Fox the decision to make the movie would never have
been made because there was no interest in moving forward with the project.

Does a film studio have the right to stand in the way of an artistic
endeavor and determine that it shouldn't exist? If the project had been
sequestered at Fox, if Fox had any say in the matter, Watchmen simply wouldn't
exist today, and there would be no film for Fox to lay claim on. It seems beyond
cynical for the studio to claim ownership at this point.

By his own admission, Judge Feess is faced with an extremely complex legal
case, with a contradictory contractual history, making it difficult to ascertain
what is legally right. Are there circumstances here that are more meaningful,
which shed light on what is ultimately just, to be taken into account when
assessing who is right? In this case, what is morally right, beyond the minutiae
of decades-old contractual semantics, seems clear cut.

For the sake of the artists involved, for the hundreds of people,
executives and filmmakers, actors and crew, who invested their time, their
money, and dedicated a good portion of their lives in order to bring this
extraordinary project to life, the question of what is right is clear and
unambiguous - Fox should stand down with its claim.

My father, who was a lawyer and a stickler for the minutiae of the law, was
always quick to teach me that the determination of what is right and wrong was
not the sole purview of the courts. I bet someone at Fox had a parent like mine
who instilled the same sense of fairness and justice in them.

Lloyd Levin"


What can you do?

1. Pass this on to post to other people.

2. This is a list of upcoming/open now films from Fox. I'm not saying boycott them, but like the time Sabina and I were too horrified at the fact that we were going to see Sex and the City, we had to make a stand and bought tickets to that Panda movie and just went in the "wrong theatre":
-Marley and Me
-Australia
-Wolverine
-That crappy Taken movie with Liam Neeson (really, you were going to go see that?)
-All About Steve
-The Day the Earth Stood Still
-Ice Age: 3D
-Bride Wars (again, really? Yeah, the woman who went to see Sex and the City is judging you)
-It Came From Upstairs
-the sequel to Night at the Museum, because it really needed one.
-Valkyrie (oh, yes, The Watchmen script was shit but this movie needed to be made! With Tom Cruise as a german guy!?)

3. By The Watchmen graphic novel, which will blow your fucking mind.

Thanks! -tes

Stress and the Modern Man

Monday, December 8, 2008

Depending on your scientific proclivities, you could say that modern man has inherited stress indicators spanning from sabretooth tiger attacks to plague/feudal ass-beatings.  No matter how you define your square peg, it's being jammed into a round stress hole.


I have my thing where I want to run off to Wyoming.  As if trying to scrape out a living on the plains of Wyoming isn't stressful.  Nevertheless, the select number of times my total concerns were food/sleep/bathing, have been my most peaceful.  

I often think about a story a friend told me: she had been struggling with a last class before graduation.  She had been dreading it her entire school career and I think she was going on three days of no sleep and shitting blood by the time her finals rolled around.  The day after, she hopped a plane to Europe.  Two nights later, she was standing on a train car so packed she had no hope of sitting the entire trip, and she had never felt so peaceful.  

M has big problems with stress.  If there's nothing legitimate to stress him, he'll wind himself up over the most ridiculous things, to the point of having to leave work from anxiety attacks (and then having an anxiety attack over having to leave work because of an anxiety attack...sigh).  It's not that I don't understand what he's going through...I have a crazy, arbitrary boss in one of the many industries completely tanking in NYC, a wedding, medical problems, yata yata.  I'm just slightly better at trying my damndest to relax when the shit isn't immediately hitting the fan (which sometimes goes the other way to the point that I try to ignore imminent danger.)

How do you guys deal with stress?  

Thursday, December 4, 2008

I think I was born masturbating. I certainly never had the experience of walking around like some asexual automaton for 12 years and then "suddenly" discovering sexual pleasure at the onset of puberty. I humped doors, bunk-bed railing, the rope in gym class, and started literally before I could remember.

Also, before my teens, I had elaborate fantasies of an anthropomorphic animal kingdom with a cheetah as the king, and all I really cared about where the slaves and the dungeons. (I can't believe I just told you that.)

I finished Beauty Myth not to long ago and Wolf talks about S&M prevalence in all our media and how it makes "genuine" feelings of love and respect "uncool" and images of women being abused and degraded "sexy". As an immigrant, I wasn't really exposed to much media outside of books and old Doors records, so I don't know about that. I really don't.

For the moment, as I still struggle to get medical insurance, M and I have completely succumbed to my vulvodynia. The last time we had sex, I was desperately thinking of anything else, the way you try to distract your mind during a painful medical procedure. All the time, faking it, because M absolutely refuses to have sex if it hurts me; he's awesome like that. Is it crazy to want at least one of us to have a great sex life?

As happy as I am right now, and make no bones about it, I'm wonderfully, ecstatically happy, I am also the least sexual I've ever been in my life. The amazing vaginal orgasms, the whips and chains, the frantic lovemaking on the beach, Chris Isaak style, seem as far apart as Shanghai and Topeka, right now.

Guest Post from Lauri Shaw of Servicing the Pole

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Hi All! I'm quite honored to have a wonderful guest poster this week. If you're interested in guest posting at Ethical Slut, please contact me at ethclslut@yahoo.com. Make sure to check out Lauri's blog, Servicing the Pole.

On Polyamory

By Lauri Shaw


Ethical Slut, thanks for the invite to guest post on your always entertaining and often thought-provoking blog. Did I mention that when I first landed here, I expected a page for and about the Poly Bible? I’m speaking, of course, of Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt’s 1997 handbook on polyamorous relationships: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ethical_Slut

“Polyamory (from Greek πολυ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [literally “love”]) is the desire, practice, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved.” - from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory

When I first moved to London to be with my husband, I met a few people right away who identified themselves as “polyamorous.”

Case study #1: single, though he referred loudly to himself as “poly.” His boundaries were dubious, and he hit on just about everyone he met – male or female. He had a different, usually much younger, girl in his bed every night of the week. Of course he offered himself to me on numerous occasions, though my husband (then fiancé) was his flatmate. What made #1 so incredibly heinous, though, was that in his quest to bang me, he tried to seed my doubts about my own relationship, and whether or not I could trust my man. To make a long story short, Slim was shady.

#2 was married. His wife was clearly not happy about their arrangement. But he didn't seem to care about her feelings at all, and he was very disrespectful to her across the board. He would air their dirty laundry in public and insult her to his friends. He made fat jokes about her to other people, often just out of her earshot. And he flirted outrageously with every woman in sight, whether his wife was in the room or not. Why he thought anyone else would want to date him after watching him treat his wife like complete shit remains a mystery to me.

#3 was in a very long distance relationship. Out of the three men profiled, this guy seemed to be the least selfish, and he was definitely the best behaved. But when he spoke of his partner, living in another country, it was clear that he really missed her. I got the sense that, had these two been living in the same place, they’d probably be monogamous with each other. It appeared they were making the best out of a tough situation, and that “poly” was what they’d come up with in the interim until their situation changed.

I didn't think any of these people were polyamorous. None of them had “secondary” relationships or encounters that looked to me like they had much to do with love.

I’ve been interested in polyamory for a long time. It seems easier said than done, after all, but perhaps that’s merely because monogamy is what I’m used to seeing. I’m also used to seeing a lot of people in relationships that are somehow limiting. Let’s take the sex out of the equation for a moment. Here’s a comparison to the theory that people should always be monogamous. Imagine if society at large told you that you could only have one friend at a time. Different people fill different roles in our lives, and I think it’s only natural to be curious about a lifestyle that seems based in this premise.

I can easily understand how the idea of living this way would also be confusing. It’s not what most of us grew up watching, so few of us have practical role models for what poly is. To make things even muddier, poly isn’t like religion, where someone else has set up the guidelines and you can just follow them. Every poly relationship that I’ve ever heard of has to make its own rules.

So how do I know these acquaintances of mine weren’t poly? Where do I get off saying that? Don’t they get to make their own rules too?

I believe that even if there are no ready rules, polyamory is based on a series of principles. Honesty. Trust. Respect. And the above examples of “poly people” did not personify these qualities.

The long distance guy was the least creepy of the examples above, but let’s put it this way: I wouldn’t have dated him. He was too busy missing someone deeply to be emotionally available in a secondary relationship. How awful would it have felt to wonder all the time if I was a replacement for someone else?

I think the concept of loving, and being in a relationship with, more than one person because there is plenty of love to go around is a beautiful one. I don't like seeing the word “polyamory” misused by people who simply want to fuck more than one person. You can do that without saying you're polyamorous.

My husband and I have had numerous discussions about whether we could be non-monogamous. So far, it’s been two years and we have been faithful to each other. Neither of us has fallen in love with anyone else. But we’re reasonable people, and so we know that someday, one or both of us might.

If that should happen, we don’t believe that means that we have to stop loving each other or being together. It will certainly complicate things. But we love each other too much to end our relationship just because someone else comes along that one of us wants to date or sleep with. And so we have decided that for us, non-monogamy would not necessarily be a deal-breaker.

We both feel that there is plenty of love to go around.

Extreme Hermit

I don't know what it is lately, but I feel like I've become a hardcore shut-in. I've been trying to go to the store to spend a $100 giftcard for...uh...six months.

First, anything in NYC is a commitment. Like the beer garden in Queens, its like over an hour each way to get there, if something happens out there, you're completely fucked, and the cost/benefit analysis means that unless I'm guaranteed a good time, forget it. Basically, anything not within 5 blocks of my apartment or work is dead to me, especially now that I'm not using an unlimited Metrocard.

Second, its impossible to have meaningful friendships in New York. I've helped people out of all sorts of jams, had hundreds of work friends, done my best to cultivate friendships as best as I can. Granted, my recent hermitism isn't helping, but I remember the crushing loneliness when I was single and going out constantly. I feel as if I have an unmanageable army of distant friends, and M/my family, with nothing in-between. I'm sick of making acquaintances.

Third, ok, so maybe I'm developing a little bit of a mental condition. I know the cure is to go out a lot, but....

Help!